THE MISTRESS 

Lovingly and powerfully guiding you to surrender to your inner desires so that you will fall madly in love with life.

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I need you to tell you something..

My brand of transformational Dominatrix BDSM Life Coaching is not all about me capriciously and sternly telling you what to do without a reason or care of any consequences. I am much more thoughtful in my actions that that. Your well-being is my duty and responsibility. I do not take it lightly.

This dance into your wildness is about firmly guiding you back to your most authentic self - for good. Having courage. Feeling comfortable in being and expressing who you are. Empowering you to believe and trust in yourself. From this submissive space, true magic happens! Anything you desire can happen!

We will go deep. We will push some edges. There will be correction and discipline. I will hold you accountable so that you can make significant and lasting changes in your one precious life. Your success thrills me and gives me so much pleasure!

Be assured, I will always be in tune with how you are feeling and where you want to take our time together.

We’ll also have a lot of fun and you will go places you never imagined! Your bravery is always rewarded by me and the Universe as you move through your one precious life.

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MEET YOUR Life coach and mistress

Mistress

Serephyna

I am Mistress Serephyna, Dominatrix, Goddess and BDSM Life Coach.

Creatrix of your new reality

My approach is infused with creativity, authenticity, playfulness, accountability and always empathy. My unwavering promise to you is to never judge. I always want you to feel trusting and safe.

Your privacy and trust are my priorities. I will never betray you. This code of conduct must be mutual.

I have worked with individuals from all walks of life for over 20 years as a life coach, health coach, guide and mentor on a variety of issues including weight loss, overall health & well-being, money blocks, relationships and empowerment. I am adept at discovering what makes you tick.

My passion is helping you find the personal freedom to be unapologetically yourself. Nothing pleases me more than your success, however success resonates for you. My deepest desire for you, darling one, is to liberate you from whatever you feel is no longer useful or wanted and help you unabashedly make the juiciest most fulfilling use of your time here on Earth. I thrill to being a witness to your submission and brave exploration of your secrets and dreams. I want for you to live joyously, deliciously and to go forth confidently no matter what might be happening in your world!

I do hold several relevant certifications and an appropriate advanced degree. Most importantly though, I have vast experience working with all sorts of unique clients on all sorts of topics. My superpowers are empathy, determination, creativity and my dedication to you, my precious co-conspirators, creators, worshippers and devotees. xoxo

FROM ME. TO YOU. WITH RESPECT.

  • 01 / MUTUAL DEVOTION

    Let’s travel together along an exciting and unknown path. I’ll show you the way to more freedom, childlike play, accepting who you are and creating the life you deeply desire. All you have to do is say yes, please.

  • 02/ EMBODIMENT

    Play with your Power. Submit to your Desire. Trust. Unleash. Explore. Become your wildest dream.

  • 03/ GODDESS ENERGY

    I am a living balance of nurturing femininity, unlimited creativity and thoughtful discipline. All of which I put to powerful use in making your unique journey an orgasmic adventure full of making dreams comes true

a little more about me

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  • I am a true nature girl who talks to trees and can’t live without mountains ~

    I take my work seriously but humor is my default mode. Mostly the goofy witty sort~

    Deep thinker without overthinking~

    Dancing Queen prone to dancing anywhere and everywhere~!

    A bit performative ~

    I live in a poetic world where art, music, beauty, activism, silliness and sensuality are essential ~ I’d love for you to join me here ~

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  • A few but not certainly all of my favorite movies, books & songs:

    Bottlerocket::The Fall::Almost Famous::Repo Man::Giant::Ghost World::Freaks 1932

    My Antonia::The Dog of the South::One Hundred Years of Solitude::::Say Nothing::The Monkey Wrench Gang

    Nature Boy ~ Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds::When I Grow Up ~ First Aid Kit:: Smokey Taboo ~ Cocorosie::Tzen Tze re rei ~ Loli Cosmica::Lucretia My Reflection ~ Sisters of Mercy::The Flower Duet from Lakme by Delibes::Poison Lips~ Vitalic

    this could go on and on…how can a Goddess possibly choose just a few

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  • I have 3-5 books going at a time - anything goes!

    Libra Sun::Libra Rising ::Aquarius Moon - this explains A LOT ~

    I love lipstick ~

    Forever curious ~

    Clever souls are my people!

    Fairies in Boots are also my people~

    I love sticking my feet in cold creeks until my pretty little toes turn pink~

    Can’t live without my oldest cowgirl boots ~

    I relish a good pedicure ~

    Hmm.. there seems to be a theme here…take note

It’s all happening ~ Penny Lane

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